Jul. 10, 2005 - 2:09 am
The lesbian (she prefers to be called things like that) constantly mentions how much she doesn't like her roommate... who just so happens to be her ex. Her ex is plannnig on moving out around August and she's all in a worried state because she won't be able to afford to live on her own. Her exact saying to me was:
My rent is $250, my utilities come out to be around $160, house phone is $30 and cell phone is $24. It's too bad I won't be able to afford to live on my own.
I asked her if she was trying to hint at something and she laughed, then said no. A few days later, she began again on her finances but threw in, "I wish Holli wanted to move out of her mom's house. All my new roommate would have to pay is about $215 a month." I didn't want to see her worrying and it DID seem like hints to me so I said, "Well. If this job falls thru, I'll move in with you if you won't be able to make it on your own." She laughed and said I'd have it made because $215 out of the paycheck I would be getting if I started working would leave me a lot extra. But now she's avoiding me.
I don't get it. I'm not pushing in on her or anything, I was just trying to help a friend in need because that's all she could talk about. Not to mention, you don't name all of your bills out to someone without trying to hint at something. But apparently I read her comments wrong and over stepped my boundaries. I still don't see how but it's made things awkward between us so obviously something's up. I don't care tho because hey, I offered to help her out, not because I actually want to get a roommate.
The Plan: Talk to her without bringing up helping her out again.
